Mostly the only thing that we tend to do about our problems is to complain, cry or worry about them. But neither of them helps us in any way. Complaining to others about our problems, doing continuous brain storming about who is behind all this, how they are trying to harm us, how circumstances are not in our favor, how our limited resources create barriers between us and our dream, how we so wanted to do something but things are never perfect to provide the support for commencement and so on.
We tend to focus so much on the problem that it blinds us of all the possible solution and rob us of the energy that we could use to solve them. It’s like if you hold a piece of paper at arms length you can see the surrounding too but if you bring it too close to your eyes then the only thing visible is that piece of paper, same is the case with problems if you keep them at particular distance and analyze them you can easily solve them but instead if you keep on thinking and worrying about them then they paralyze you.
No problem is powerful enough to impact us for prolonged period of time or that have power to hurt us to greater extend. It is our inaction and inability towards them that causes such results. Our constant worries and fear fuel them and give them power to defeat us.
If in adverse circumstances we act with responsibility, maintain our courage, our faith then we can use our energies in finding solutions and implementing them. With some brain storming and strategy we can we use the same problem to work in our favor and we can develop a staircase of success from it.
So next time you are facing some problem instead of worrying try to control your reaction towards it, refuse to worry or allow that problem to paralyze you and instead focus on all the possible solutions and the best that you can do and then do it.
With this one change you will see that every thing will change and you will emerge as problem solver and next success story in town.
Have a blessed day ahead.
Aisha Javed
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